Is it when you say, 'I hate you,' stop communicating, run
around on each other, or is it because you just gave up? There's a thin line between hate and love, so
it would be something that could go either way.
Although, it's not uncommon for you to really dislike your spouse one
minute and love them the next.
Communication is always important, but even then it's still
possible to still love someone and not communicate as much as you once
did. Usually, it's a sign of taking each
other for granted. Sometimes all it
takes is finding a new interest to do together to start you talking to one
another.
Even if one spouse runs around on the other it doesn't mean
they don't love you; they might just be a little bored with you, or you're not
providing something they need. A couple
like this could work it out if they want to.
Giving up is the most common reason for why marriages don't
last. People get mad and they quit
working at their marriage. It's so much
easier to quit on a relationship than to work at it, and I guarantee it takes
work in any relationship.
There are times when you can't love someone anymore. For instance, someone you love turns out to
be abusive; it's time to get out then.
Your partner murders another person; it's time to get out.
In my new soon to be released short story, All Bets Are Off, the heroine has a
gambling addiction, which nearly costs her husband his business. Would you still love someone who did that to
you?
Could you trust them again?
Thank you for reading.
Have a great week, and I'll see you next Sunday.
Sandra K. Marshall, Author
@ Eirelander Publishinghttp://www.eirelanderpublishing.com
http://www.skaymarshall.com
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