Today it's my pleasure to
present my dear friend, erotica romance author and body builder, Wendi Darlin'. I think all of you will enjoy getting to know
Wendi.
Q. Briefly
take us on the journey with you – when did you start writing and what hurdles
did you have to overcome to get published?
A. Writing
started for me before I ever attempted to write. I was a voracious reader as a
child. Every time I closed a book that touched my soul, I had an overwhelming
desire to do what that author had done. Throughout school, teachers encouraged
my writing and told me I had talent, but I didn't think I knew enough about
life to tell a worthwhile story. I attempted my first novel in college. It was
awful. I wrote a few short stories around that time that I only shared with
friends. They weren't too bad. About 8 years later I wrote another novel. It
was only slightly less awful.
The smartest thing I did was
devote myself to learning the craft. I took classes, joined writing groups and
worked with critique partners. A couple years later I had two books that were
viable. I won a few RWA contests and finally earned a publishing contract. It
wasn't easy. There has been a lot of bloodshed, sweat and tears along the way.
I still sweat and bleed and cry for this profession. But for me it's worth it.
I think it's important to remember that first and foremost writing is a passion
and perhaps a talent. But in close second-place writing is a craft. Writers who
don't fully appreciate the skill involved and work to improve their skill set
are cheating themselves, their readers and their stories, in my opinion.
Q. What’s
been the greatest contributing factor to achieving your goal of publication?
A. Not giving
up. If I had perceived rejections as a reason to quit instead of improve, I
wouldn't be a writer now.
Q. What
has surprised you the most about being a published author?
A. How
many people want me to write their books for them! It's comical actually. I
literally cannot count the number of people who have met me and within only a
few minutes have said something along the lines of "I have this amazing
idea for a book. You could write it for me. Is that called ghost writing or
something?" I don't have time to write all of the books swimming in my
head. I definitely don't have time to write anyone else's.
Q. How do
you come up with your story ideas?
A. They
come from everywhere. Sometimes I have what I call a lightning strike moment
where the idea just seems to whack me in the head out of nowhere. Sometimes I
hear or see something and want to build on that. And sometimes I have thought,
hmmm....what would sell more copies than the last book I wrote? Honestly, the
stories I write for money resonate the least with me. The stories that mean the
most to me seem to develop organically. "Throwing Stones" (written as
Wendi Christner) which won the 2010 Writer's Digest Short-Short Story
competition built itself around something my grandma used to say when she got
in the car with Grandpa. I think no matter what sparks the idea, the best
stories are the ones you pull from your heart.
Q. Do you
have a favorite author?
A. I have
a lot of favorite authors. I love to read Lisa Carey, Sue Monk Kidd, Joshilyn
Jackson, Rachel M. Harper, Anne Rivers Siddons, Gloria Naylor, Susan Elizabeth
Phillips, Ernest Hemingway, Eudora Welty... I could keep going. I love authors
who pour their soul into their writing and don't try to clean up the mess when
it lands on the page. I tend to read a lot of Southern literature for that
reason.
Q. What
did you want to be when you grew up at the ages of 6, 13 and 24?
A. If you
had asked me this question when I was those ages this is what I would have
said: At 6, a teacher. At 13, a fashion
designer. At 24, a literature professor.
But underneath it all, at every age, I
wanted to be a writer.
Q. What
did you do when you got the call? You know the one saying they wanted it. Grin.
A. I
cried. A big, ugly, nose-running, sobbing, cry.
Q. How did
you come up with the idea for your latest release?
A. I hate
to admit this, but the latest release is one of those "what will sell more
copies than the last book?" books. It's a fun read, but I don't write
those books anymore. I took a little time in the past year or so to regroup and
re-evaluate my priorities. I've come to the conclusion that writing without
that heart connection isn't worth it for me. From now on every book that comes
out with my name on it will have my soul within the pages. Every. Single. One.
That's a promise I've made to myself and everyone who reads my stories.
Q: What
made you become an erotica romance author rather than writing some other genre?
A: It was
completely accidental. I had written Cowboy
Games as a sexy, but not really erotic, romance. I loved that book and
really wanted to see it published. I submitted it to Siren Publishing. The
publisher loved the story but she wanted me to heat up the sex scenes so it
could be sold as an erotic romance. I did and officially became an erotic
romance author without ever setting out to be. Cowboy Games is very mild on the erotic scale and four years later
is still selling steadily.
Q: Is it tougher
to write erotic romance scenes than other love scenes?
A: I don’t think
so, if you approach them the same way, but it is beyond the comfort zone of
some writers and readers. Understandably so. Erotic scenes, in my opinion,
should have the same emotion as any other love scene. It’s just a matter of
added detail and word choice. In erotic romance you call a duck a duck and you
don’t brush past it. But when it boils down to it, I’m still writing romance
and that needs to come through in every scene no matter what words I use or how
I describe what’s going on.
Q: When did you
start your writing career and how long did you write before getting published?
A: I had my first
novel published in 2008. I had a few short stories published prior to that.
I’ve been writing since I was a little girl and then off and on as an adult,
but in 2004 I decided to become an author. So it took a good four years and a
couple of really badly written novels to learn the craft enough to reach my
goal.
Q: How many books
do you have published?
A: I have 12, a
combination of novels and novellas.
Q: Do you have a
new one coming out?
A: I’m currently
working on a mainstream urban fantasy that I will be sending to my agent in the
very near future. Hopefully, he will find a home for it soon.
Q: What is your
latest title? Tell us a bit about the
story.
A: My latest is All That Glitters. It’s a cowboy m/f/m
ménage. The heroine is a Vegas Showgirl down on her luck who happens to break
down in the right small Texas
town. I really like the dynamics of the characters in this story. They are very
different from one another, but I think the combination works well.
Q: For just a
moment we're going to switch gears. I'm
very curious of why you decided become a bodybuilder.
A: Hahaha! I
don’t really consider myself a bodybuilder, but I am competing in Figure
competitions, which is a very feminine form of bodybuilding. In Figure, the
emphasis is on body symmetry and proportion. Muscle definition is necessary,
but Figure competitors don’t strive to have the large muscles that traditional
female bodybuilders have. There are several ways women can compete in the
bodybuilding arena depending on their personal preferences and natural build. Figure
is just the option I chose. I decided to compete for a couple of reasons. Primarily
it boils down to vanity and my ongoing battle with aging and gravity. I will do
just about anything to cling to my youth. My personal trainer and some of my
friends compete so I was introduced to competitions through them. My trainer
convinced me I could improve my body and stay younger looking by building more
muscle. The competition gives me short term goals and as an added bonus, it
gives me the opportunity to put on a sparkly suit and pose for pretty pictures.
Anybody who knows me knows I can’t pass up the opportunity to sparkle!
Wendi looks like a body builder to me. Doesn't she look like one to you, folks? Smile!
Q: Do you plan to
write a book using a bodybuilder as your heroine?
A: I haven’t
planned on it, but who knows. I do think I may write some non-fiction books on
the subject or related subjects. Right now I’m focused on the urban fantasy
series that I’m working on and I’m keeping my options open for future projects.
Q: What is your
favorite drink?
A: I love Kim
Crawford’s Sauvignon Blanc. Unfortunately, while I’m in competition training
wine is not on my diet.
Q: If you could
travel anywhere in the world where would you go?
A: I have a list!
My list is consumed by islands and beaches. I’d love to go to Fiji, Bora
Bora, Antigua, any island I haven’t been to and all those I have. Nothing makes me
feel more at peace than an ocean breeze and crashing waves. I travel as much as
I can. Not all my destinations are tropical, but those are my favorite.
Q: What is your
favorite food?
A: Chocolate.
It’s the only food I ever crave beyond reason.
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All That Glitters
Wilder, Texas 2
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[PolyAmour: Erotic Cowboy Multiple Partner
Romance, M/F/M]
Former Vegas showgirl Dahlia Burke can’t
get out of Texas fast enough. She’s winding her way through rural
Wilder, Texas when she plows into Tanner and Scooter’s work
truck. Dead broke and stranded, will Dahlia find more than one reason to
stay--or two more reasons to leave?
Tanner Dawson barely escaped with his life
when Dahlia plowed into his truck. And once he and his best friend, Scooter,
take her under wing, he’s not sure if she’s planning to love him to death or
finish him off.
Scooter Austin can’t tolerate gold diggers. When he finds out
Dahlia is newly divorced from a man who has a revolving door of trophy wives,
Scooter’s ready to send her out of Wilder with the toe of his boot.
How will these cowboys know if Dahlia has a
heart of gold or just an eye for all that glitters?
A Siren Erotic Romance |
Is there anything else you
would like to add?
Thank you so much for having
me!! I’d like to invite everyone to friend me on Facebook. I stay pretty active
on there, and I like to keep in touch with readers and other writers.
